What Messaging Apps Are Your Kids Using?

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Category: Parenting, Social Networking, Technology, Teen Boys, Teen Girls, Teenagers, Teens and technology

If you are over the age of 18, it can be difficult to keep track of which messaging apps are all the rage on any given day. Students are often communicating with each other through multiple apps and channels, and new messenger apps pop up frequently. One of the reasons there are so many options for messaging is that each works in different ways: there are apps centered on messaging friends, others that focus on video chat, and even more that coordinate meet-ups. Because of the number, ease, and accessibility of these apps, it is important to understand what your child is using to talk to their friends and how these apps work—especially given that over 70% of US teens have access to a smartphone and many check it over 80 times a day.

 Some of the most popular communication apps used by teens today center on simple text and picture messaging: apps like KIK, Messenger, and Snapchat. KIK allows users to connect with friends, groups, and even bots through a chat interface, and users can send stickers, voice messages, emojis, and media to each other. Messenger works in a very similar way, and boasts integration with its parent company, Facebook. Users can share 10-second video clips with all of their friends, and can edit and augment them with various special effects. These features make Messenger very similar to Snapchat, which is perhaps the most popular app among teens. (We wrote about Snapchat’s pervasiveness at length here.)

In addition to these messaging apps, the notion of “live chilling” has emerged, where tweens and teens use apps that share live video. Houseparty allows users to share a video with the tap of a finger, and notify friends that they are available to video call. Also, the success of the dating apps like Tinder has encouraged the emergence of apps like Spotafriend that target the teenage audience. Unlike Tinder, which technically no longer allows anyone under 18 to use the app, Spotafriend allows teens to view pictures of peers near them. They can then swipe right if they would like to get know the person better, and if both parties swipe right, they can connect, privately chat and eventually meet.

Since the landscape of teen and tween technology is in a constant state of flux, the best way to get a sense of what your children are doing online and with their phones is to ask them. Have them show you which apps they use and why—as this can spark an open conversation about productive social interactions and the importance of privacy and safety—while helping parents better understand the role of technology in their children’s lives.


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